The Vixen Advisor
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The question of the month:
Is it normal to feel nothing when my husband goes down on me? I mean it feels okay but I never manage to achieve an orgasm this way and I think there might be something wrong with me. He enjoys it so much so I don't want him to stop but I want to reward him for his efforts.
~MT, Houston, Texas
Vixen's Answer
This
is perfectly normal. Most women have a hard time reaching that elusive
peak of bliss unless their clitoris and vulva are highly stimulated.
This is a learned technique that takes quite a bit of practice to perfect.
Every woman is different so you have to tell your husband what feels
good and what doesn't. Without your input how is he to know? If you
feel strange telling him then use body language, moans, or grab his
head and move it to the right spot. The possibilities are endless and
the rewards are truly worth the time taken. So grab a glass of wine,
lay back, and enjoy!
