A: It's very common to have these thoughts. A large majority of women experience this problem which can be easily remedied. Speak to your man about this concern so he knows how you feel and why. Don't allow him to think it is him because that will sour your relationship right there.

First of all remember you are doing this for the man you love. Try not to feel as though it is a duty. Make it something fun and creative as part of your foreplay. Some women claim the man has a bad smell and this is usually a turn off so as a given, the first thing you need to do is make sure you are both clean before you begin...a nice bath together with a bit of wine and candlelight will set the mood...explore him while you are in the warm water. Wash him from head to toe, this way you can stimulate him into an earlier orgasm once you reach your destination.

When you are ready, stimulate him with your hands first. Then when you feel comfortable enough to take him into your mouth, begin slowly until you feel comfortable. If his semen bothers you then let him know that you don't feel comfortable swallowing. As time goes on, you can do it longer and longer. Just remember to take it one step at a time.

~The Vixen