A: I have to admit that this question honestly made me grin. Most men I know would jump at this idea...but then again there are shy ones like your husband. If this is something he has never tried he will be hesitant at first. Role playing doesn't necessarily mean dressing in Maid outfits and running around the house. Try to make it fun by asking about his fantasies. You may be surprised at his answers. Once you find out what his interests are you can play on them. You can also tell him what yours are...don't be embarrassed. He will appreciate knowing. If he sees you are truly interested he may want to play and that's exactly what you want.

Role playing doesn't have to take place in the bedroom and it's fun to pretend to be someone else. Try an accent and see what he does. He just might find that sexy and ask you to speak like that for the remainder of the night...so go with it and see where it leads you. Men are very erotic and visual, believe it or not, and one small thing can lead you both on the floor, the kitchen table, the back yard, back seat of your car, or in chains for the rest of the night...

Good luck, and have fun!

~The Vixen