As someone who has previously never had an interest in adult sex toys, I have now become very curious thanks to SUITE magazine! Can you recommend a product appropriate for a novice? There are so many choices I don’t know where to begin! Thanks!
~RK, Dallas, TX

The Vixen’s advice to you then is to stay away from the more exotic toys and stick with the basics. A “massager” or dildo as they’re known would be a good starting point, although I don’t recommend you purchase the hard plastic “massagers” that you can get at any Walmart or Target. You’ll end up being very disappointed with the results. Dildos come in a wide variety: realistic, regular, strap-on, and vibrating. I would suggest the realistic or vibrating since you’re new to all this. And so you don’t freak out too much, I’d also recommend staying away from the massively sized ones. Pick one that’s near to the size of your man, that way the sensation isn’t unlike what you’re used to. But be prepared…when they say realistic they mean it. Some dildos come with testicles attached, Flesh, Black or Mulatto colored, veins and a skin like feel, just like on an actual penis. To help in your decision there are numerous online stores where you can shop in privacy, that show pictures, and give a description of what each can do. Hope this helps…and enjoy!