I am very upset. I was going out with this guy for about three months and we just had sex for the first time. He got very grossed out (I won't repeat what he said) because I, uh, cum a whole lot...and I mean a WHOLE lot. Is this unusual (he said I was a freak).
~TZ, Dothan, AL

There is a spot, known as the G-spot. It can be touched or rubbed during sexual pleasuring to promote its own climax. Some women are not only able to release the sexual tension that builds up in this region, probably the urethral sponge on the other side of the vaginal wall, but also to produce fluid emitted from their urethra. That opening is where urine is discharged; but a special liquid also pours forth from inside its hidden realms. For many women such as you it's a natural way of your body releasing its sexual tension. Incorporate this side of your sexual being as a wonderful part of your lovemaking with someone special (and he is out there, somewhere). Plenty of men are turned on by this phenonmena! Rubber sheets and plenty of towels near the bed will alleviate some of the discomfort and inconvenience. Above all, know that your body is one of those special ones that have the capability of expressing themselves in a variety of ways, including wetness.